Crossed over loved ones can visit us at any time

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Crossed over loved ones can visit us at any time

Just because we’ve never sensed the presence of a loved one who passed away years ago doesn’t mean they haven’t visited us in the past or won’t in the future.

Some readers have told me they desperately want to encounter a family member or friend’s spirit, and they’re upset because it hasn’t happened. I believe there are a couple reasons why people find themselves in this state:

  • the ethereal visitor may believe their loved ones are not emotionally ready to handle an encounter or
  • the spirits have come around, but haven’t been obvious about it.

Recently, a friend of mine suffered through a trying emotional episode. Amid this crisis while preparing breakfast, she noticed movement at the window: A beautiful yellow butterfly hovered in front of the pane. She noted it was strange that it didn’t flit from plant to plant, but instead maintained its position for minutes. Thoughts of her mom crossed her mind, but she didn’t focus on that. She needed to get to work.


Later that day in her second floor office, she glanced at the window. Strangely enough, a butterfly identical to the one she witnessed at home fluttered in place, once again remaining for some time. Then, without warning, an overwhelming sensation of love, caring and support enveloped her. She realized then the butterfly was a message from her mom, letting her know she was there. Her mother had crossed over six years earlier, and until that day, my friend had believed her mother hadn’t ever come to see her.

The death of a loved one’s physical body is devastating to those of us left behind. The inability to touch that person or to clearly see or hear them is difficult for us. We should remind ourselves to stay aware and open, and to understand that just because we don’t sense them, it doesn’t mean they aren’t there. And that once we’re emotionally ready or need their comfort, they’ll be more likely to announce themselves.

By |2015-07-22T04:04:47+00:00July 22nd, 2015|Intuition/Psychic Ability, Uncategorized|2 Comments

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  1. Tracy July 22, 2015 at 12:35 pm


    I was wondering about your thoughts on pets visiting who have passed on. You know my little Kiara has been gone nearly two years now and a few times I have had the most vivid dreams of her visiting. Normally, I don’t remember my dreams or very little of them. But the ones with Kiara are power and vivid and stay with me for weeks.

    In your experience, do visits like that occur often in dreams? Or with pets.

    • Kathleen July 22, 2015 at 2:39 pm

      I definitely believe the spirits of our beloved pets visit us. We share a deep love with them and that love never goes away. I also believe you did have a visitation dream. I’ve actually drafted out a post that will go live in a couple of weeks about the hallmarks of visitation dreams. The most telling characteristic of a visitation dream is that it is very vivid–very different from normal dreams. It’s great that she’s used her energy to communicate with you. You are very special to her. Take care, Tracy, and thanks for taking the time to write.

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