Surviving and thriving reveals true beauty

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Surviving and thriving reveals true beauty

In the U.S., physical beauty generally is highly esteemed only if it fits the ideal set by Hollywood: a willowy size 0. While hiking a few years back in Wyoming’s Wind River Range, I realized the beauty I appreciate most in nature is in the hard-earned tenaciousness that allows an organism to thrive in even the harshest conditions.

Examples that come to mind are:

  • the sparse bristlecone pine, one of the oldest living plants on the planet, which wrenches its existence on rocky, unforgiving windswept peaks,
  • the desert flower that blooms despite nutrient-poor soil and scant rain, and
  • the gangly jackrabbit succeeding in parched environment.

I’d like us to recognize the same beauty in mankind. One where our wrinkles and scars (both outward and inward) testify to our strength. Badges of honor, these physical manifestations of survival are roadmaps of the adversity we’ve overcome, shaping our essence and evolving us into the beings we are today.

What would we be like if our lives had always been easy? For me, conquering those Mt. Everest-sized obstacles have shown me:

  • what’s truly important to me,
  • how resilient and persistent I can be, and
  • the importance of having empathy for and patience with others.

These hard-won revelations root my self-confidence and allow me to find peace in who I really am.

The most beautiful person I’ve known was a woman who overcame much hardship in her life. Her inner peace and wisdom added a glow to her countenance. She celebrated her victories over personal battles. When I think of her, I recall her serenity, the shine in her eyes, the perkiness of her smile. I never dwelled on her advanced age, the wrinkles she must’ve had or any physical imperfections. She embraced who she was and never shrank from living fully as herself. She was the ultimate survivor. Like the bristlecone, she stood strong.

By |2017-03-04T10:23:47+00:00February 15th, 2017|Chronic Illness/Overcoming Adversity, Uncategorized|4 Comments

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  1. Ardith Peper February 15, 2017 at 12:00 pm

    I agree with you 100% Kathleen! We said. Great article.

  2. P Jo Riley February 15, 2017 at 12:24 pm

    Well put, Kathy. I join you in appreciating the resilience found in nature. It’s natural to feel awe at magnificent views and towering vistas, but power also resides in modest forms. Adaptation and accommodation keep this world spinning, assuring beauty in even the smallest details.

    • Kathleen February 15, 2017 at 12:49 pm

      Thank you, Paula. I love the way you bring up the power in modest forms and that beauty can be found in the smallest details. I agree wholeheartedly with your take on this subject.

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